I think any town player in your position should be trying to defend themselves rather than attack another. As long as I battle you, you're going to be destroyed. So far you haven't given any worthy arguments for why you shouldn't be battling. On the other hand, I've given an argument for why KY shouldn't be--and he has a Lv50 grass type, an easy prey for my Moltres. I'd be begging him to participate in a battle so I could help my partner work around that problem.